My Princess,  Queens, First ladies and Sisters. 

What does the scripture say regarding you?   Well, the thoughts that God
think towards you are just good and never evil,  for God certainly has a
expected end for you.

Don't you speak negative over yourself and stop allowing others to do the same.
Its time to step up, begin to speak life over you and your situation.  I refuse to die, say it again, Yes, that's correct, I refuse to die.  You have a lot of living to do and you will never be able to accomplish anything being pitiful.
Stop the pity parties, get up from the place of darkness and gloom. 
you can not be pitiful and powerful at the same time.

Make a decision....

I am loving you to life.

I am Queen.